The Importance of Knowing Your Value with The Dating Coach Comic Paul Roseberry

Disclaimer: Neither Paul Roseberry or Evelyn Huynh are psychologists and this episode is solely based on their knowledge and experience. Listener discretion is advised. 

 

Hello you beautiful soul and welcome to the Evolve with Evelyn podcast. Today we are joined by the very first male-identifying guest. In this episode we dive into all things relationships; from the trauma to needs of validation. Paul shares with us his knowledge around cheating and abusive relationships as well as how we got to being the relationship coach comedian that he is today.

 

In this episode you will learn:

• Meet Paul and what he does
• The stigma around men having childhood traumas 
• How Pauls’ need for validation reflected in his adult and dating life
• Some of the biggest and most common challenges men struggle with when it comes to relationships
• The importance of setting your own value
• Learning the difference between confidence vs ego
• How to start shifting out of ego and into genuine connection
• Ways for men to start seeing their own value 
• What to do when your partner doesn’t want to heal or put in the work
• Pauls take on abusive relationships
• Things to do if you’re scared to leave an abusive relationship
• Why it’s so important to take ownership of your trauma in your relationships
• Navigating a cheating partner 
• Why men cheat vs why women cheat
• Top relationship tips you need to know
• Top tips for those not in relationships but are in the dating field 
• Ways to evolve to the next version of yourself

 

Meet Paul:
I'm a men's dating/confidence coach and also a stand up comedian. I'd like to talk about dating and relationship topics and with a blend of comedic angle. In addition to being a confidence and dating coach, I'm also a stand up comic and storyteller. I grew up in the sticks of Portsmouth, NH and have since lived in NYC, Boston and currently in Los Angeles. I've had at least 100 jobs, dated 100+ women and after a few beers may occasionally mention my IQ qualifies for Mensa. I've always lived life for the story and have definitely been on some wild rides! I didn't plan to get into coaching. I'd just seen so much, worked through so much and learned so many communication and relationship skills, that I found myself helping guys at work with their girlfriends. I'd resolve a breakup during lunch break, help a guy out of the doghouse in between client meetings. My methods worked and the word got out, before I knew it guys I barely knew were coming up to me on the street and the referrals started coming in. I see relationships like a chiropractor sees a spine, I recognize misalignment and genuinely enjoy straightening things out, I love this stuff and I love seeing it work!

 

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